Kern County CA Obituary Project Obituaries.....Schaeffer , Paul Stephen May 31, 2005 ********************************************************** Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/obits/obitsca/obitsca.htm ********************************************************** File contributed for use in USGenWeb Archives by: K T bluewolf@onemain.com June 8, 2005, 10:26 pm The Bakersfield Californian Schaeffer, Paul Stephen 1960 - 2005 Paul Stephen Schaeffer Visitation: Fri., June 10, 4-8 p.m. Services: Sat., June 11, 10 a.m. A Celebration of Life memorial service will be held for Paul Stephen Schaeffer on June 11, 2005, at 10:00 a.m., at Hillcrest Memorial Park Chapel. Pastor Steve Seymour will officiate. Paul was born on May 7, 1960, at 11;15 p.m., in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia to Russell and Betty Schaeffer. He passed peacefully from the loving arms of his wife, Janell, into the waiting arms of Jesus on May 31, 2005, at 8:25 a.m. He was preceded in death by his grandmother, Dr. Lela Wakeman; grandfather, Charles McCune and father, Russell Moe Schaeffer. Paul is survived by his wife and soul mate, Janell; stepfather and mother, Steve and Betty Bostick; stepmother, Rosa Schaeffer; sister, Carol Smith; half- sister, Jackie Kunkel and husband, Ronnie; father and mother-in-law, Clyde and Jeanne Van Hoozen; sister-in-law, Donna Berry and husband, Phillip; brother-in- law, Jr. Van Hoozen and wife, Brynda; sister-in-law, Judy Michalak and husband, Wayne; sister-in-law, Kelly McDaniel and husband, Rudy; son, Michael; stepson, Gary; grandchildren, Tylor and Cierra; Rileigh, Sydney and Evan. He is also survived by uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews, nieces and friends too numerous to name. Paul is also survived by his two Rottweilers, Harley and Max, whom he loved dearly and always referred to them as his boys (They miss their Dad already). Paul was diagnosed with Burkitts Lymphoma in October 2004 and put up a valiant fight. He had such a brave heart, strong faith and always hope. Cancer can be a very scary, sad and humbling experience. Had it not been for the support of his family, friends, employer, and his professional staff, his time here on earth would have been much shorter. I would like to express my gratitude, thanks and love to Dr. Ravi Patel and all of the CBCC Physicians who took such good care of Paul, as well as the rest of the staff, who are not only my co-workers, but friends as well. Also, big hugs for all the CBCC patients and their families who provided emotional support. Thanks to the entire 5th Floor nursing staff at BMH. I will always remember your kindness. Also, a very special thanks to Dr. Mui and his staff for always being there for us from the beginning to the end. Thanks to Dr. Kitt and her staff too. Thanks everyone for the prayers. Paul had so many who loved him, that it would be impossible to acknowledge them all by name. You all pulled together in our time of need in ways we were totally overwhelmed by. Every single one of you played a huge part in his life and you know which part you played. How can I ever begin to repay you? You allowed me to totally devote my time to Paul with no worries. There is one person I feel I must mention by name, my cousin, Veronica Thompson. I hope you know how priceless you are. Veronica in essence became Pauls surrogate wife while I was working, took him to all of his appointments, and provided companionship almost on a daily basis. Her daughter, Ashley, was the daughter, Paul never had, but always needed. Paul will be missed by so many people, but his memory will be kept alive in our hearts. He was a friend to all. I have lost my husband, soul mate and very best friend. He was my perfect person and I was not ready to let go. I still cant believe this has happened. It just doesnt feel real. Its as if my life has stopped. So how is the world still turning and why is my broken heart still beating? God only knows. I cant imagine going on without him here. Just remember to make all of your todays count. You may not have another tomorrow. Do not be afraid to love. Like Paul always said, Its the journey. Love Always and Forever, Janell Legacy.com Published in the Bakersfield Californian on 6/8/2005. Additional Comments: Volunteer submission - No relation to deceased. http://www.legacy.com/bakersfield/LegacyHome.asp File at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/ca/kern/obits/schaeffe7984gob.txt This file has been created by a form at http://www.genrecords.org/caobfiles/ File size: 4.6 Kb