Fairfield-Windham County CT Archives Obituaries.....Greaves, Benjamin L. August 10, 1868 *********************************************** Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/ct/ctfiles.htm *********************************************** ************************************************************************ The USGenWeb Project makes no claims or estimates of the validity of the information submitted and reminds you that each new piece of information must be researched and proved or disproved by weight of evidence. It is always best to consult the original material for verification. ************************************************************************ File contributed for use in USGenWeb Archives by: Joy Fisher sdgenweb@yahoo.com May 18, 2005, 10:07 pm Stamford Soldiers' Memorial 1869 BENJAMIN L. GREAVES, a native of Windham, Conn., was living in the family of the author when the war opened, Enlisting as private into Co. G, 10th Conn., he soon showed capacity for command, and was rapidly promoted to a captaincy. He was in thorough sympathy with the aim of the war, and in several engagements displayed the best qualities of a good captain. The summer of 1863 was especially trying to his health, and he was obliged to go into hospital on the first of October. For some thirty days, in the vicinity of Petersburg, Va., his company had been under fire, often, both day and night, and the exposure and strain proved too much for his nerves. He resigned, and was honorably discharged October 25, 1863. Returning to New York City, where he had spent a large portion of his earlier life, he died there of congestion of the brain, August 10, 1868, leaving a wife to whom he had been married but a few months. His remains were taken to Windham, and deposited beside those of his father, in the beautiful cemetery of his native town. The following testimony from Rev. H. C. Trumbull, chaplain of the Tenth, is worthy a place in our record of the captain's service : "Captain Greaves will ever be remembered by his army comrades, as a brave soldier, possessing fine qualities of mind, and many attractive traits of personal character. The fact that he was in command of the company, in the ranks of which he went out from Stamford, when hardly a year of his enlistment had expired, and that, too, in a regiment comprising such material as the Tenth, with its bright record for discipline, hard fighting and thorough efficiency evidenced his superiority in much that went to make a first-class soldier." General J. L. Otis, in referring to captain Greaves' efficiency, while in command of a skirmish line at Deep Run, Va., Aug. 16, 1864, adds this estimate of his military character. "His conduct was always commendable in action. He was one of the kind not likely to get all the credit due to him. He never got excited under fire, and consequently did not make so much display to attract attention as others less deserving might. I always considered coolness and self-possession in action the most valuable characteristics an officer could possess, and captain Greaves had these in a remarkable degree." At the annual re-union of the officers of the Tenth, Sept. 23, 1868, they thus testify to the military character of the captain: "Captain Greaves, enlisting at the organization of the regiment, was soon promoted from the ranks for his gallantry and his faithfulness in duty. Step by step he won the command of a company, and. thenceforward in prolonged and arduous army service, he ever bore himself as a brave, prompt and efficient soldier. Never flinching in the hour of danger, never failing in the performance of any task assigned him, he won the confidence of his commanders, and the respect of those whom he commanded. His record of patriotic services is one in which those who love him may have just pride, and his early death is sincerely lamented by many who knew his capabilities of usefulness." File at -- http://files.usgwarchives.net/ct/fairfield/obits/g/greaves41gob.txt This file has been created by a form at http://www.genrecords.org/ctfiles/ File size: 3.7 Kb