Dooly CO. GA Mattie Caldwell Parham Obituary Submitted by John R. Adams ************************************************************************ USGENWEB ARCHIVES NOTICE: These electronic pages may NOT be reproduced in any format for profit or presentation by any other organization or persons. Persons or organizations desiring to use this material, must obtain the written consent of the contributor, or the legal representative of the submitter, and contact the listed USGenWeb archivist with proof of this consent. The submitter has given permission to the USGenWeb Archives to store the file permanently for free access. http://www.usgwarchives.net/ *********************************************************************** THE GOSPEL MESSENGER, Vol. 27 No. 11, November, 1905 Mrs. Mattie Parham Sister Parham, wife of Brother L. E. Parham, daughter of Brother Ben and Nancy Caldwell, and granddaughter of Elder Creed Caldwell, was born April 30, 1861, and was married to Brother L. E. Parham December 14, 1886. To this union were born five children, three boys and two girls, one boy dead. She and her husband joined the Primitive Baptist Church at Sharon, Monroe County, Ga. the first Sunday in September, 1893, and was baptized by Elder W. C. Cleveland. She died at her home at Unadilla, Ga. July 2, 1905. She left a kind husband, four children, one sister , and a host of relatives and friends to mourn their loss, but we believe that our loss is her eternal gain. She was a kind wife and a good mother. She was kind to all and especially to the sick and the poor. She had a kind word for all. She had that dreaded disease, consumption. All was done for her that doctors, a kind husband, and good friends could do, but all to no avail. God was her best friend. He said, "Child, come home", and she was ready without a murmur. We think it hard to give up such a good wife, mother and friend as she was; but what a blessed thought that we had a good one to give up! It is the Lord that giveth and the Lord that taketh away; and blessed be the name of the Lord. I will say to the children, "Remember your kind mother's good advice. She would say, "Live right: be kind to all." I want you all to follow her good example here, and when time is no more on earth, O may we meet on that happy shore, where parting is no more. I pray that the Lord may give the husband grace that he may be ready, when the Lord calls, and that he may, like Cousin Mattie, fall asleep in Jesus. J. R. Adams Joseph Randall Adams was married to Mary Elizabeth Caldwell 1st cousin to Mattie Caldwell Parham. Mattie Caldwell Parham was the daughter of Benjamin F. Caldwell and Nancy Elizabeth Gresham.