Schley County GaArchives Obituaries.....Harvey, Bernard July 23, 1895 ************************************************ Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/ga/gafiles.htm ************************************************ File contributed for use in USGenWeb Archives by: Harris Hill http://www.genrecords.net/emailregistry/vols/00011.html#0002514 January 7, 2006, 1:59 pm The Schley County News Thursday, August 8th 1895 REFLECTIONS UPON THE DEATH OF LITTLE BERNARD HARVEY To Mr. and Mrs. Mirk Harvey:----- On February 11th 1894, little Bernard was given to you and on July 23rd 1895, God took him for his own and now he lives in heaven. But little over seventeen months was this bright beautiful little son allowed to dwell on earth and add sunshine and comfort to your home. A mother's idol, a father's pride--pure as the driven snow, beautiful as a cherub, spotless, guileless and innocent, has been transmitted from earth to heaven. With a heart that only one year ago has felt the pangs of a similar sad experience and now overflowing with deepest sympathy for you in the weeks and days of your bereavement. I would extend to you these thoughts trusting that they may be of some use in helping to soften and lighten the burden of sorrow God in his wise providence has called on you to bear. As for ten days the angel of death hovered over your quiet home it was indeed pathetic to see you day and night patiently watching your darling boy and doing all within your power to put into effect all that human instrumentality could do to sustain the powers of life in your little sufferer, but alas! here again was illustr! ated that we are powerless and God all powerful. Who could fail to admire the Christian fortitude with which you accepted God's controlling power. But why should you murmur? God calls those whom he loves and why should he not claim his own brightest jewels to shine in his house through our own be made dreary. It does seem hard under the circumstances to say that it is all for the best. The human heart is prone to give over to grief and lamentations: but wait, soon like the tired pilgrim you will fall sick and weary and if only you have served the Master here, He will take you home to rejoice in finding little Bernard from whom you have been separated. Then how true will be the saying that it was all for the best. Let us try to learn the lessons taught by these sad circumstances. As some herbs need to be crushed to give forth their sweetest odors, so some natures need to be tried by suffering to evoke the true excellence and worth that is in them. No soul is so obscure that God does not take thought for its schooling. Death always speaks with a voice of instruction, so let us heed its warnings, and above all remember the uncertainty of human life. There is but a breath of air and a beat of the heart betwixt this world and the next, but, how sweet the thought, to know that the last faint pulsation of little Bernard here was but the prelude of his endless joys hereafter. So when we reflect upon his death how can we but exclaim "Oh death where is thy sting, oh grave where is thy victory." Here our imagination follows him and may it not be that over the heavenly portals your darling boy is now looking with face all beautiful and bright as in an angel's garb he stands and looking down on earth upon you is saying: "Farewell, parents! Yet not farewell. Where I am ye too can dwell, I am gone before your face. A moments time, a little space, When ye come where I have stepped, Ye will wonder why ye wept, Ye will know by wise love taught, That HERE is all and THERE is naught." H.S.M., Ellaville, Ga., August 5th 1895. File at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/ga/schley/obits/h/harvey575nob.txt This file has been created by a form at http://www.genrecords.net/gafiles/ File size: 3.9 Kb