Bourbon-Wyandotte County KS Archives Obituaries.....Merriam, Maria A. Barrett 1899 ************************************************ Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/ks/ksfiles.htm ************************************************ File contributed for use in USGenWeb Archives by: Jeanne Fontaine fi_lay@yahoo.com September 13, 2006, 11:21 pm Unnamed Kansas Newspaper LIFE'S SUDDEN ENDING Mrs. J. Q. Merriam Passes Away at 10 o'clock Last Night of Paralysis of the Heart at the Age of 69 Mrs. Maria A. Merriam, wife of J. Q. Merriam, one of the oldest and most prominent citizens in Fort Scott, died very suddenly last evening at 10 o’clock at the family residence, 424 South Holbrook street, of paralysis of the heart, and the announcement of her demise will be a sad blow to her many acquaintances in this city and abroad. Although Mrs. Merriam has not been confined to her bed she has been declining in health for many years. She being subject to heart spells, she and Mr. Merriam for the past seven or eight years have taken trips abroad, to the mountains in the summer and south in the winter in the hopes that a change of climate and scenery would be of benefit, which was prescribed by Dr. Cory, the family physician. They have taken two trips to Florida. This summer was spent with her daughter and son in Kansas City, and she only returned a month ago to spend the winter at home. Last evening she was well as usual and retired about 9:30 as is her custom. A few minutes before 10 o’clock she was seized with a dizziness and a choking sensation and called to Mr. Merriam, who was with her, for a glass of water. Realizing that it was a repetition of previous attacks of this description and that her life would sometime expire in this manner, her husband hastened down stairs to get the water. Returning from the kitchen he found Mrs. Merriam in the dining room, she having followed him down. Gasping for breath she drank the water and was immediately seized with convulsions. Sense of speech had nearly departed. There was a quivering of the half parted lips, and murmuring softly to her husband “I am gone,” she sank unconscious into a chair and three minutes later life was extinct—she had passed into that everlasting sleep which none ever return. While at this hour death was unexpected Mr. Merriam says he knew that some day she would pass away in this manner, although this spell was no more severe than previous attacks. Mr. Merriam was alone when death came but E. J. Chapin and Alex Campbell, who live in adjoining houses, were notified. Telegrams were sent to her son, Harry, and daughter, Mrs. Durall Havens of Kansas City, and they are expected to arrive this morning. Maria A. Barrett was of a proud and wealthy Yankee stock and was born in Pompford [probably Pomfret], Connecticut, March 27, 1829, being nearly 70 years old at the time of her death. Removing to Grafton, Mass., with her parents she was married to John Quincy Merriam, January 2, 1849, and after a few years residence there Mr. and Mrs. Merriam removed to Cass county, Illinois, residing there nineteen years. In 1871 they came to Fort Scott where Mr. Merriam accumulated a comfortable fortune in the nursery business, but he retired from active business life some years ago and since then has given his time to his private interests. Having accepted the faith of Christ at the age of 16, the deceased has been a devout Christian all her life, taking an active part in church work and up to a few years ago devoted much time to Sunday school duties in the Congregational church here, having a great Christian influence over her scholars. One notable fact in this work is that all the members of the class which she taught have associated themselves with the church, and now she awaits Christ’s richest reward in heaven. The deceased is survived by a grief-stricken husband, on son, Harry, civil engineer of the Memphis railroad; and daughter, Mrs. Duvall Haves [Havens], both of Kansas City, two brothers, one of whom lives in Massachusetts, and several grand children, all of whom have the deepest sympathy of their many friends in this, their saddest hour of affliction. No funeral arrangements will be made pending the arrival of the son and daughter, but the remains will find their last resting place in the family lot in Evergreen Cemetary. Additional Comments: I found this obituary clipping from a newspaper in antique chest purchased at auction in Louisiana. Being a genealogy buff, I thought it would be useful for Merriam / Barrett /Havens families. The name of the newspaper is not shown nor is the date. It is presumed to be a Fort Scott newspaper from wording of obit. Death date is calculated from date of birth and age at time of death listed in the obit. File at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/ks/bourbon/obits/m/merriam363ob.txt This file has been created by a form at http://www.poppet.org/ksfiles/ File size: 5.0 Kb