Henry Boyce Letter to Mary Ryan, Rapides Parish Louisiana Submitted by John Wettermark ********************************************** Copyright. All rights reserved. http://usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://usgwarchives.net/la/lafiles.htm ********************************************** Henry Boyce Letter to his sister, Mary Ryan, 1841 Irene Archinard Boyce died at the young age of 24, leaving two small children, Henry Archinard and Louise Frances. Judge Henry Boyce writes his sister Mary Ryan to tell her the sad account. Stamped OCT 11 Alexandria To: Mrs Mary Ryan Urbana Ohio Bayou Rapides Sept. 30th 1841 My Dear Sister I got home three days ago but alas; with the (inanimate) corpse of my poor wife. The angel of Death over- took me in my journey and robbed me of my amiable pure and kind-hearted Irene. I know I will have your sympathies, you saw Her long enough to be able to know Her natural character of goodness. You were all favorites of Hers, And she often expressed to me the pain and regret she felt in knowing you were all in a Country where you worked too much, And wished me to advise you not to expose your health to such a degree but to get help - knowing as I did that Her disease was too deeply seated to be (removed) by medicine and dreading the idea that she might get much worse before I got home, for I did not fear What has unfor- tunately taken place. I was, when I came down from the springs about to neglect all minor considerations for the time, and hasten Home with Her, but when I mentioned this she wished me to see your Boy to College and attend to every thing else, and she would remain a few days at Cincinnati. I am now deeply sorry I did not hasten On, I would have had the consolation of bringing Her back alive to her Dear Mother and Children Whom she loved so much and so terribly, she Would again have embraced them and her other relations, And since it was the will of Providence She should sink under Her wasting disease She would have died in the bosoms of her Family blessing them and receiving their blessings. There is one consolation in her stay at Cincinnatti, She received the sacrament, and as far as the Agency of the church could go, purified herself For heaven where I trust she is. The day before we left Cin. She went very early To the Church in a carriage, when she came Back she was very much ex(h)austed and faint, A pain in the side was very severe, and a bowel Complaint had began. As I knew this to be one Of the last and worst symptoms of her disease, I felt alarmed and hurried as, I remained one Night in Louisville and she suffered much. I got some remedies to check this and set Out the next day the 10th in a Boat for the Mouth of the Ohio, where I got there on the Morning of the 15th. The only boat ready to Set out was a very large one, the Louisiana. I had to take her unfortunately. Had I been There one day earlier, I would have been in a Boat that got down five days sooner and Got home before my misfortune. This boat We came on got aground on sand bars on which She spent nearly three days, stopped every where to take freight as it required a large quantity To fill her. My poor wife was every day Becoming more feeble though she would not Admit she was getting worse. Her cough was Incepant and I would sometimes though rarely See Her in tears as if she knew what was To be the end, though she did not say any Thing to me, nor did I wish to discourage Her by expressing my fears. She bore her Sufferings with the most Christian Resignation. I frequently found her saying Her prayers and even teaching them to the Faithful servant that was along with her. Indeed she seemed to become more angelic(k) Every day and the Ladies on board vied with Each other in their attention to her, keeping Her company when in her state room ( ) ( ). They all seemed to love the mild and interes- Ting sufferer, at length on the morning of The 25th , a little ebefore 9 oclock we got to The mouth of Red River. A single steam Bt lay there and she was bound down to the City, and was too large under any circum- sances to go to Alexandria. No alternative seemed to present itself but to land at a House kept there. As the large Steam Bt could Not approach the shore, it was necessary to Land her in the small boat, and have Her Carried in a chair to the House by two men. She took an affecting leave of the Ladies on Board all shed tears, nor could I restrain mine. She was seated in the Boat in a chair, the Captn. and myself beside her, As we reached the Shore she exclaimed to me she was fainting, And that moment began to fall off th echair We got hold of her applied the Cologne bottle Which she held in her Hand, she respired one Long breath from the lungs, and the Captn. Cried Out she is "dead" a "dying", two men ran With a mattress and we carried her to the House and placed Her on a bed. Alas it Was too (t ) Her gentle spirit had Forever fled, but without a struggle from Those (pallid) and now silent lips. Oh The desolation of that moment, I do not Wish to dwell on it. The Ladies landed And offered their assistance. She was dressed For the last time, And most fortunately The Captn of the Boat that lay there Suggested they had ice enough to preserve Her till I would get home. And offered To turn back to the mouth of Black River To meet the other Boat. This arrangement Was completed, I will not enter into the Details till I write to Francis. I got to The family mansion where my wife was Born on Monday evening the 27th. And next Day Her mother and the Children arrived >From the (Riverwood) at 11 oClock. When laid Out her features were perfect and reposed in The mild quietude of Death. They were as Free from the decay which follows it , As the pure and christal-like ice which Had preserved them. And at 1 oClock she was placed in the (grave) tomb amidst the grief of a weeping family. The priest attented and performed the ceremonies of our Church on such sad occation. My dear Irene was remarkable for Innocence and purity of feeling and character Not only in her actions, but in her (inmost) Thoughts. Peace be to her gentle spirit. My children are in good health. They are too young to be sensible Of their loss. Son Henry though he (Yiped) When told, the cold features of his Mother Could not comprehend that he ought to be sad Though he looked serious as every thing Novel around him. He with the innocence Of childhooh asked me, as I held him by the hand, What that black box was? Alas, that the first time this dark object Connected with the last wants of Humanity. Should attract his attention, should be found To be his Mothers coffin. In reference to what He heard the Priest Say, when we came from the Grave, He asked Me How his Mama could get to Heaven Out of that place where she had been put? I must now bring this gloomy letter To a close, I wrote one to Brother Mic. Who is at Natchitoches in good Health, And wrote some others, so many things Now claim my attention that I wont Have time to write you all, I will (th ) and write one to Frances as she knows the family and places. I am glad, in their account, neither of them were here during so painful a time. Tell them all to write to (me) on This Occation whilst their feelings are Touched by my misfortune. And wish Frances to write a Long and kind letter to Madam (Archinard). She ought also to write to Madam (Emily) Archinard and Madam (Otelle) who is here. I beg of you to take good care of all Your healths, guard yourselves well with Flannel in that rigorous climate, And You must keep a Servant girl, you Will find as much to do besides as You (ought) to attend to. My love to our Mother, the Girls, And (Mr) Ryan, And present my best Regards to our friends there. God bless you all. In affliction your affectionate Brother Henry Boyce