Terrebonne County Louisiana Archives News.....Fifty Years Ago No. 37 December 19, 1896 ************************************************ Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/la/lafiles.htm ************************************************ File contributed for use in USGenWeb Archives by: Savanna King savanna18king@gmail.com August 11, 2023, 1:43 am The Thibodaux Sentinel December 19, 1896 To satisfy the curiosity of a young man who is suddenly thrown into a community where the customs, manners, habits, language and surroundings fo the people are different from those in which his boyhood days have been passed, and to acquire an insight into them, as well as to accustom himself to such social changes were the first pursuits of my life after settling upon the banks of the Lafourche. The acquaintances that were formed with the young men and women were very pleasant and lasting, but alas! At the expiration of fifty years when I call their names, almost the universal answer received is found in the doleful echoes, “gone, gone.” The people both young and old treated me very kindly; friendship and social intercourse were bestowed upon the young stranger that impressed his mind and memory with grateful thoughts. Even those whose language I could not understand, were equally solicitous to render my presence among them pleasant and agreeable. It is a sad, but nevertheless a fact that whilst the sociability and hospitality of the people of Louisiana today is proverbial and acknowledged by all visiting citizens of other states, it lacks much of that simplicity and warmth of reeling that were exhibited by the inhabitants of Bayou Lafourche a half century ago. Friends never met or separated without a cordial shaking of the hand. Men riding along the public highway always raised their hats to friends whom they saw on the galleries and in the yards of their homes, who were sufficiently near to be recognized and their salutations were ever responded to in the same manner or by a wave of the hand. A man or woman entering into a house almost invariably shook the hand of every person, within, accompanied by a social and pleasant greeting, and on retiring, the same formality was gone through with. There was a custom prevalent at that date, that was nearly universal, characterizing the social traits of the citizens, at least, the male portion, which was that of drinking to each other’s health. When two or more men met in a town or village where cafe houses, as they were then designated, were open, the first thing after greeting was to make a drink, and if the meeting was in a private house, the proprietor always produced the material to cement friendship and render cordial the visit. But few persons were so poor as to not have their decanter of whiskey or other stimulant in their dwellings. In fact it was a prevalent opinion that liquor was essential to the health of everyone, and it was purchased as one of the necessaries of life, the same as flour, meat, potatoes, &c. Yet the people seldom drank too much, and drunkenness was not indulged in to an extent that one would naturally conclude the daily use of stimulants would generate. Still the too frequent visits to the cafes undoubtedly brought many young and promising youths to ruin as it does today, and opened an early grave for their bodies. The gradual decrease of this custom during fifty years has been steadily perceptible to any observing citizen, and when one conversant with it, then and now, can readily perceive the wonderful change, for the better, he may earnestly desire to witness its continuance. Previous to my arrival on the Lafourche it was considered an affront to refuse to drink with any many who gave one an invitation to imbibe with him, but this feature has partially died out, and it was only with what is now called the “hoodlum class” that any trouble was likely to occur from such a refusal. Cafe houses were always open in all the little towns or villages and many were also found in the country. Billiard tables were a universal accompaniment of those places, and there were many excellent players to be found practicing upon them. Every man visited these cafes, they were the general meeting places of persons who had business to transact with each other. When one man wished to see another on any business “Meet me in such a cafe on Sunday” was generally the message sent. A great change has taken place, but when the memories of those days rise up before me they bring up many reminiscences as well as faces of dear friends who have gone to their silent homes, and I long to live again some of those happy and precious years of my young life. Let it not be inferred that the bibulous habits of the people in the Lafourche country were peculiar to them alone because such a custom was practiced everywhere at that period. The warfare that has been developed against the use of intoxicating liquors was only begun about 50 or 60 years ago. I remember in the early “forties” when the Washingtonian crusade first reached my early home, and the great furor and accusation that it produced, the people purchasing in many instances, the stock of the drinking houses, and throwing it into the streets, in their enthusiasm and earnestness. It was about that period that Father Matthew came over from Ireland, preaching temperance all over the United States with great power producing wonderful effect. File at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/la/terrebonne/newspapers/fiftyyea776gnw.txt This file has been created by a form at http://www.genrecords.org/lafiles/ File size: 5.7 Kb