Dr. Rutherford and Miss Butman almost marriage certificate, Milan, Monroe County, 
Michigan

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            From April 1989 issue Vol 2, No 5 Lenawee County Researchers
newsletter:

                                         A Novel Wedding

    From the Michigan Expositor dated April 1, 1851, but about a little tiff
that took place in Erie County, Ohio:
                                  Dr. Rutherford and Miss Butman

We copy the following article and corresondence from the "Milan O. Tribune".
Knowing that Dr. Rutherford has lectured in this place, and is well known 
to many of our citizens, also to many in different parts of the State, we 
have concluded to give the whole matter to our readers. 

A Novel Wedding Scene 

Our town, was not a little startled last evening by a novel and unexpected
denoument of a wedding occasion. We now give a few of the leading particulars,
not feeling warranted at this hour to express an opinion as to the merits or
demerits of the parties.

It appears the relations of intimate friendship had existed between Dr.
Rutherford and Miss Butman, for some two years, which resulted in their 
presenting themselves at the Episcopal Church last evening, for the purpose of 
marriage. The first portion of the service, embracing the vows of the bridegroom, 
were promptly responded to by him. The convenant of the bride was then read by 
the Clergyman, to which she promptly responded "No!" The minister asked her if 
she was in earnest in what she said--"Yes, sir,  and she, "he is a perjured man!" 
and turning around, she took a gentleman's arm and left the church. Dr. 
Rutherford promptly asserted his innocence of the charge she made against him. 

[There follows in the newspaper 2 full columns, plus over one-half of another,
consisting of a letter from the bridegroom addressing the charges against him 
and of a letter from the bride responding to the bridegroom. This incident took 
up more columns and space in a newspaper in 1851 for any one article than I had 
seen prior to this, other than book excerpts. It would appear that the bride's 
jilting of her intended created quite the stir in 1851.  The bride claims the 
bridegroom had another sweetheart.]