Steelville Star-Crawford Mirror, Steelville, Crawford Co. MO Local Obituaries for the Week of January 18, 2012 Herman E. “Benny” Benson Herman E. “Benny” Benson of St. James, Missouri was born on March 16, 1938 in St. James, Missouri to Herman Edward and Ruby Stambaugh (McDonald) Benson and passed away at the Missouri Baptist Hospital in St. Louis, Missouri on Monday, January 2, 2012 at the age of 73 years, 9 months and 17 days. Benny Benson Benny was united in marriage to Dorothy M. Parrish on November 18, 1961 at the St. James Christian Church in St. James, Missouri. Benny worked for the St. James Volunteer Fire Department for 15 years; also for UMR for 24 years; International Shoe Company for 6 years; Bowling Coachlite in Rolla, Missouri for five years, and also for the Jess Nelson Bowling Alley and the Movie Theatre in St. James, Missouri. He was preceded in death by his father, Herman Edward Benson; his mother, Ruby Stambaugh (McDonald) Benson and step-father, Wilbur Stambaugh. He is survived by his wife Dorothy of St. James, Missouri; one son, Bruce Benson and wife Laura of St. James, Missouri; one brother, Lawrence “Larry” Braziel and wife Sue of Portland, Maine; three sister-in-laws, Alice Gnemi; Helen Harris; and Shirley Parrish; one special grandson, Jeremiah; other relatives and friends. Visitation was held on Thursday, January 5, 2012 from 4-8 p.m. at the Jones Funeral Home in St. James, Missouri. Funeral services were conducted on Friday, January 6, 2012 at 11 a.m. at the Jones Funeral Home with Craig Rippy officiating. Music was furnished by Avis Rainbolt the vocalist and organist Becky Rippy. Pallbearers were Randy Ray, Don Licklider, Tom Brown, Bruce Parton, John Douglas and Scott McWhorter and honorary pallbearers were the St. James Fire Protection District. Burial was in the family plot in the Ozark Hills Memorial Gardens in Rolla, Missouri. Arrangements under the direction of the Jones Funeral Home in St. James, Missouri. Myrna Kay Blue Myrna Kay Blue nee Adams, of Robertsville, Missouri, formerly of New Baden, Illinois, was born February 18, 1937 in Joliet, Illinois to John and Katherine, nee Lauer, Adams and passed away Friday, January 13, 2012 in Robertsville, Missouri at the age of 74 years. On August 12, 1961 she was united in marriage to Edward Blue in East St. Louis, Illinois. She was a grade school music teacher for 40 years.  Throughout her career she taught at St. Louis and Illinois public schools until her retirement at Shaw School. She was the Conductor for The Belleville Philharmonic Youth Orchestra. She was preceded in death by her husband, Edward Blue; her parents, John and Katherine Adams. She is survived by one son, Brian Blue and wife Patricia of Robertsville, Missouri; one daughter, Kim Blue and husband Chris Koszalka of Prairie Farm, Wisconsin; one step-daughter, Sandy Dockins and husband Terry of Delaware State; one sister, Paula Cason and husband Larry of Owensville, Missouri; eight grandchildren, Lola, Pearl, Meghan, Thomas, Timothy, Summer, Lance and Melanie; five great-grandchildren, Olivia, Mariah, Ty, Kaleo, and Kaden; other relatives and friends. Visitation was held 6-8 p.m. on Monday, January 16, 2012 at the Midlawn Funeral Home, Union, Missouri. Arrangements by the Midlawn Funeral Home, Union, Missouri. Lisa Christine Bruning Lisa Christine Bruning (Harmon) of Japan, Missouri, was born to Walter J. Harmon Jr., and Isabelle M. Harmon (Naro) on July 24, 1964 in Kirkwood, Missouri and passed away December 23, 2011 at the Missouri Baptist Medical Center in St. Louis, Missouri. Lisa was christened on August 16, 1964 at the Immaculate Conception Church in Arnold, Missouri. Her family moved to Leasburg, Missouri in 1973 and she attended the Bourbon School District. She was baptized again on August 4, 1996 at the Fellowship Baptist Church in Ridgetop, Tennessee. Lisa was fond of birds. She was known as the “chicken whisperer.” She also had two green thumbs. She enjoyed fishing, was a passionate chef and a disgruntled archeologist and a St. Louis Cardinal fan. Lisa was first joined in marriage to Kenny Bloodworth and three children were born to this union. Lisa returned to her Leasburg home where she met David Paul Bruning. On February 12, 2000, they were married. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Walter J. Harmon, Sr., Helen M. Harmon (Grueber), Joseph Naro and Isabelle M. Naro (Pino); mother-in-law, Marcie L. Bruning (Schaefer), father-in-law, Lawrence E. Bruning and nephew, Keith M. Harmon. She is survived by her parents, Walter J. and Isabelle M. Harmon of Leasburg, Missouri; husband, David Paul Bruning of the home; son, Jacob Hunter Bloodworth of the home; daughters, Rachel Ann Bloodworth and partner Scott Martin of Whitehouse, Tennessee and Lauren Marie Bloodworth and partner Casey Hodgin of Franklin, North Carolina; mother-in-law, Mary Jane Bruning and partner Paul Watson of Leasburg, Missouri; sisters and brothers, Walter Harmon, Jr. and wife Betty of High Ridge, Missouri, Steve Harmon and wife Linda of Sullivan, Missouri, Patrick Harmon and wife Judy of Hillsboro, Missouri, Kevin Harmon and wife Karen of Hillsboro, Missouri, Kathleen Parnell and husband Lyle Terrence Parnell of Bourbon, Missouri and Kenneth Harmon and wife Tammy of Leasburg, Missouri; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Robin Bruning and wife Debbie of Leasburg, Missouri, Jeffrey Bruning and wife Jill of Leasburg, Missouri, Lori Philpot and husband Joe of Sullivan, Missouri, Douglas Bruning and wife Cindy of Leasburg, Marcy Cartmill and husband Craig of Edmond, Oklahoma, Evette Nolie and husband Bob of Sullivan, Missouri, Dustin O’Hanlon and wife Amber of Elwood, Nebraska, Kaleb O’Hanlon of Lexington, Nebraska, Jaycob O’Hanlon of Lexington, Nebraska and Amber O’Hanlon of Coalville, Utah; grandson, Shawn Allen McWilliams; other relatives and friends. A memorial service will be Saturday, February 11, 2012 at 3 p.m. at the InJoy Christian Fellowship in Leasburg, Missouri. Elmer E. Chew Elmer E. Chew was born February 14, 1931 in Pacific, Missouri to Harry and Helen Chew, and passed away January 14, 2012 in Cuba, Missouri at the age of 80 years. He was preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Helen Chew; his brothers, Harry Edward Chew Jr. and Harold Chew; nephew, Ben L. Chew Jr. and sister-in-law, Dorma Lee Chew. He is survived by his brothers, Robert Chew and significant other Shirley Beal of Bolivar, Missouri and Ben Chew and wife Arbell of Cuba, Missouri; sister, Peggy Danley of Mt. Vernon, Missouri; other relatives and friends. Visitation was held on Tuesday, January 17, 2012 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at James & Gahr Mortuary in St. James, Missouri. Services were held on Tuesday, January 17, 2012 at 1 p.m. at James & Gahr Mortuary in St. James, Missouri with Mary Taylor officiating. Arrangements under the direction of James & Gahr Mortuary of St. James, Missouri. Richard Warren “Bo” Dildine Richard Warren “Bo” Dildine of Cuba, Missouri was born November 24, 1950 at St. Louis, Missouri to Cecil Clifton and Thelma Delana (nee Thompson) Dildine and passed away on Sunday, January 8, 2012 at his home in Cuba, Missouri at the age of 61 years. Bo was united in marriage to Connie Taylor on October 7, 1984 at St. Clair, Missouri. Bo spent his life serving others. He served in the United States Coast Guard and then the National Guard during the 1970’s. He was a police officer for Bourbon before moving to Cuba and becoming a Cuba Police Officer in the early 1990’s. Bo became the Chief of Police of Cuba in August of 2008 until present. He attended the Covenant Praise Church of God, member of the Christian Motorcycle Association and the Redeemed Riders Chapter 1068. Bo and Connie were foster parents for Crawford County and the surrounding area for many years. What Bo truly enjoyed was riding his motorcycle, spending time with Connie, taking care of his “Boys” on the police department, being dad and grandpa and spending time with family and friends. He was preceded in death by his parents, Cecil and Thelma Dildine; one son, Lucas Light; three brothers, Arthur Holrath, Cecil E. Dildine and James Dildine; one sister, Patricia Alvey; other relatives and friends. He is survived by his wife, Connie Dildine; three sons, Christopher Robert Dildine and Amy Skaggs of Rolla, Missouri, Kenneth “Lee” and wife Amanda Dildine of Leasburg, Missouri and Patrick Dildine of Cuba, Missouri; two daughters, Misty and husband Gary Halbert of Steelville, Missouri and Chelsea Dildine of Steelville, Missouri; 14 grandchildren, Tyler, Robert, Jordan, Malachi, Makayla, Kegan, Elijah, Ashleigh, Dakota, Sierra, Jada, Zoe, Elizabeth and Danielle; two brothers, Thomas Dildine of Hermann, Missouri and Michael and wife Claudia Dildine of St. Clair, Missouri; two sisters, Sharon and husband Larry Birchfield of St. Louis, Missouri and Nina and husband Eddie Thompson of Lonedell, Missouri; former wives and special friends, Deborah Aksoy of Rolla, Missouri and Sue Bonser of Steelville, Missouri; the entire Cuba Police Department and their families; other relatives and friends. Visitation was Thursday, January 12, 2012 from 4-8 p.m. at Recklein Auditorium, Cuba, Missouri. Funeral service was 9:30 a.m. on Friday, January 13, 2010 at the Recklein Auditorium in Cuba, Missouri with Pastor Jim Delacourt and Pastor Terry King officiating. Pallbearers were Bo’s children and law enforcement. Interment, prayers and full military honors followed at the Kinder Cemetery, Cuba, Missouri. Arrangements under the direction of the Mizell Funeral Home in Cuba, Missouri. Ricky “Dylan” English Ricky “Dylan” English of Steelville, Missouri was born on Saturday, March 21, 1992 in Rolla, Missouri to Gary and Shanna Grubaugh English and passed away on Wednesday, January 11, 2012 at the age of 19 years, 9 months and 21 days. Dylan had worked a short time as a cook at Sonic drive-in. His hobbies were camping, hunting and fishing. He was preceded in death by his father, Gary English; grandparents, Josephine Grubaugh, Ricky English, Pat and Imogene English; and infant uncle, John W. Grubaugh. He is survived by his mother, Shanna English of Steelville, Missouri; brother, Steven Ryan Volner of Salem, Missouri; sisters, Natasha English and Tiffany English, all of St. Louis, Missouri; grandfather, William “Bill” Grubaugh of Steelville, Missouri and grandmother, Karen Daniels of St. Louis, Missouri; aunts, Sheryl Grubaugh of Springfield, Missouri, Richana English and Serena English, all of St. Louis, Missouri; other relatives and friends. Visitation was Friday, January 13, 2012 from 5-8 p.m. and funeral service 11 a.m. on Saturday, January 14, 2012 at the Hutson Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri with Rev. Dale Grubaugh officiating. Burial was at the Freeman Cemetery, Cherryville, Missouri. Arrangements under the direction of the Hutson Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri. Kenneth W. “Bill” Fey Kenneth W. “Bill” Fey of Cuba, Missouri was born to Paul and Ella (Kuhlmann) Fey on November 28, 1936 in St. Louis, Missouri and passed away Wednesday, January 11, 2012 at his home at the age of 75 years. Bill retired from Bussen Quarries in St. Louis after 32 years of dedicated service. He was a 45-year member of Local No. 110 and he proudly served his country in the U.S. Army. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, St. Louis Cardinals, wood crafts, pinochle, soccer, telling stories to the family, country music, but most of all spending time with his family. He was preceded in death by his parents, Paul and Ella Fey; wife of 51 years, Mary E. Fey; four sisters, Hazel Tempfer, Helen Drinnin, Edna Fendler, Rosemary Arias; two brothers, Teeter and Paul Fey, Sr.; and great grandson, Drake Fey. He is survived by his four children, Kelly and husband Everett Uhl of Cuba, Missouri, Mike and wife Tammie Fey of Cuba, Missouri, Kurt and wife Michelle Fey of Barnhart, Missouri, Joe Fey of Cuba, Missouri; nine grandchildren, Shannon and husband Chad Caron, Michael Uhl and girlfriend Lindsey Verble, Jennifer and husband Daniel Garbo, Tara and husband Nick Weber, Michael Fey, Jr., Christina Fey and Fiance Darren Clifford, Ashley Barbey, Joe Fey and Kasse Fey; 10 great grandchildren, Cameron, Courtney, Naythan, Blaze, Jadelyn, Gunner, Hunter, Mya, Skylar and Jaxson; brothers and sisters, Art Fey of St. Louis, Missouri, Louise Clifton of St. James, Missouri, Virginia Drinnin of DeSoto, Missouri, Joe Zadow of St. Louis, Missouri, Dot Reiser of Arnold, Missouri; other relatives and friends. Memorial visitation was held on Friday, January 13, 2012 4-8 p.m. at the Mizell Funeral Home in Cuba, Missouri. Memorial service was held on Friday, January 13, 2012 at 8 p.m. at the Mizell Funeral Home with Pastor Don Bahr, officiating. Arrangements under the direction of the Mizell Funeral Home in Cuba, Missouri. Terry William Parker Terry William Parker, son of Bill and Myrtle Parker, was born June 20, 1945, in Vienna, Missouri and passed away January 1, 2012, in his home near Rolla, Missouri at the age of 66 years, 10 months and 26 days. On July 11, 1964, he was united in marriage to Barbara Jean Whitehead and to this union two sons and one daughter were born. He was born and raised in Vienna and graduated from Vienna High School. After he and Barbara were married, they made their home in Vienna and the Kansas City area.  On June 1, 1967, Terry proudly joined the Missouri Highway Patrol, beginning his career as a patrolman and the family moved to Festus. The family would later move to Waynesville, Missouri and eventually settle in Rolla, Missouri. Terry continued with the Patrol until retiring as a Sergeant on September 1, 1997. Terry made his profession of faith in Christ early in his life and was a member of Rolla Church of Christ where he served a number of years as a deacon and was serving as an elder at the time of his passing. Terry enjoyed traveling with Barbara including RV trips to Florida and Alaska. Family was extremely important to Terry and he spent time with them hunting, fishing, snow skiing and motorcycling.  He was an avid spectator of the grandchildren’s sporting events. Every summer included family time on the Gasconade River. He was preceded in death by his parents, Bill and Myrtle Parker and two sisters, Billie Havens and Louise Roberson. He is survived by his wife of 47 years, Barbara; son, Shane and his wife Melissa of Aurora, Missouri; son, Shawn and his wife Tonya of Grain Valley, Missouri; and daughter, Shannon and her husband Derric Fane of Rolla, Missouri; nine grandchildren, Andrew Parker, Rachel Parker, Parker Fane, Emily Parker, Kennedy Fane, Reece Parker, Hayden Fane, Reagan Parker, and Riley Parker; brother, Jim Parker and wife Mickey of Vienna, Missouri; sister, Joy Chambers and husband Butch of Rolla, Missouri; sister, Ruth Poor and husband Sonny of Lawson, Missouri; sister, Nellie Sandbothe and husband Louis, of Lake Ozark, Missouri; other relatives and friends. Visitation was held on Wednesday, January 4, 2012 from 5-8 p.m. at James & Gahr Mortuary in Rolla, Missouri. Services were held on Thursday, January 5, 2012 at 11 a.m. at the Rolla Church of Christ with George Hulett officiating. Interment at the Vienna City Cemetery. Arrangements under the direction of James & Gahr Mortuary of Rolla, Missouri. Lucille Proffer Lucille Proffer, nee Abney, of Cuba, Missouri, was born November 17, 1930 in Huzzah, Missouri to Earl and Mabel Bays Abney and passed away Wednesday, January 11, 2012 at the Missouri Baptist Medical Center in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 81 years. She was united in marriage to Herbert Proffer on August 20, 1955 in St. Louis, Missouri and he passed away December 19, 2009. Lucille was of the Baptist faith. For many years, she enjoyed camping with her family, driving through the Huzzah area and watching comedies on TV. But most of all, she loved being with her family. She was preceded in death by her parents, Earl and Mabel Abney; her husband, Herbert; one sister, Erma Jean Allen; and one grandson, Scott Kirkendall. She is survived by her 10 children, Jackie Kirkendall and husband Butch of Maplewood, Missouri, Sharon Langdon of Fenton, Missouri, JoAnn Moore of Breckenridge Hills, Missouri, Karen Heibenstriet and husband Paul of Dallas, Texas, Barb Ort, Chuck Proffer and Steve Proffer and wife Lisa all of Cuba, Missouri, Kim Dreyer and husband Carlin of Affton, Missouri, David Proffer and Lisa Copling both of Cuba, Missouri; one brother Richard Abney and wife Libby of Bourbon, Missouri; 17 grandchildren; 19 great grandchildren; one great great grandchild; other relatives and friends. Visitation was from 5-8 p.m. on Friday, January 13, 2012 at the Britton- Bennett Funeral Home in Steelville, Missouri. Funeral service was held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, January 14, 2012 at the Britton-Bennett Funeral Home in Steelville, Missouri with Pastor Norman Heironimus officiating. Special music of “In the Garden” and “Amazing Grace” was played. Committal prayer and interment were in the Skaggs Cemetery, Huzzah, Missouri. Casket bearers were Chris Barton, Corey Barton, Brad Ray, John Stuart, Mark Hebenstreit, Brad Bell, Mark Palmar and Denny Pollard. Arrangements under the direction of the Britton-Bennett Funeral Home of Steelville, Missouri. Eleanore Jean Thorson Eleanore Jean Thorson of Cuba, Missouri was born to Martin and Lelia (Wells) Worlie on November 14, 1927 in Little Falls, Minnesota and passed away Thursday, January 12, 2012 at her home at the age of 84 years. Eleanore was a homemaker and enjoyed crossword puzzles, reading, watching TV, gardening, crocheting and spending time with family and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Martin and Lelia Worlie; husband, Adolph Stewart “Stew” Thorson; son, James Thorson; sister, Ella Mae Domshot; brothers, Don, Duane, Lyle and Ken Worlie and a granddaughter, Heather Thorson. She is survived by her two daughters, Cathy and husband Dennis Hattersley of Cuba, Missouri, Cindy and husband Jim Hopkins of Boise, Idaho; five grandchildren, Jason, Travis and Alicia Nefzger, Dennis and Michael Hattersley; three great grandchildren, Ella and Gavin Nefzger and Chelsea Hopkins; other relatives and friends. Visitation will be held on Saturday, January 21, 2012 at 11 a.m. until time of funeral service at 1 p.m. at the Halvorson-Johnson Funeral Home, Brainerd, Minnesota. Interment will follow at the Valle Cemetery, Brainerd, Minnesota. Mizell Funeral Home of Cuba, Missouri is in charge of local arrangements. Doris A. Wenzel Doris A. Wenzel of Bourbon, Missouri was born to George and Kitty (Moore) Danielson on January 11, 1930 Jericho, Missouri and passed away Thursday, January 12, 2012 at Missouri Baptist Medical Center in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 82 years. Doris was united in marriage to Kenneth W. Wenzel on July 9, 1945 in Rolla, Missouri and to this union five daughters were born. Doris retired from Paramount Apparel Factory in Bourbon after many years of dedicated service. She was a member of Calvary Baptist Church in Bourbon, Missouri. She enjoyed quilting, cooking, gardening, flowers, playing rummy and spending time with her husband, children and grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents, George and Kitty Danielson; step-mother, Kathryn Danielson; one brother, J.C. Danielson; one sister, Marguerite Shelton-Stroup; one granddaughter, Kelly Jean Elliott. She is survived by her husband, Kenneth W. Wenzel of Bourbon, Missouri; five daughters, Donna and husband Al Summers of Anutt, Missouri, Jane Valley of Bourbon, Missouri, Joyce Wenzel of Bourbon, Missouri, Ruth and husband Royce Missey of Leasburg, Missouri and Patty and husband Robert Mesger of Sullivan, Missouri; 10 grandchildren, Jamie Elliott, Sheila Henson, Brett and Damon Summers, George and Jerry Valley, Becky, Ed and Tim Missey and Amanda Mesger; 10 great grandchildren; sister-in-law, Thelma Wenzel of Bourbon, Missouri; other relatives and friends. Visitation was held on Monday, January 16, 2012 from 9 a.m. until time of funeral service at 11 a.m. at the Mizell Funeral Home with Bro. Chuck Cook, officiating. Interment followed at the Lick Creek Cemetery, Cuba, Missouri. Pallbearers were Ed Misssey, Jamie Elliott, Jimmy Henson, George Valley, Damon Summers, Joe Murphy and Ronnie Wenzel. Arrangements under the direction of the Mizell Funeral Home in Cuba, Missouri. 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