Steelville Star-Crawford Mirror, Steelville, Crawford Co. MO Local Obituaries for the Week of May 19, 2004 Daphna Paulena Callahan Daphna Paulena Callahan nee Howdeshell was born Thursday, December 17, 1925, near Cherryville, Missouri, a daughter of the late Eldon E. Howdeshell and Rose Eldora (Parrett) Howdeshell. Daphna entered eternal rest on Monday, May 10, 2004 at her daughters' home in St. Peters, Missouri, at the age of 78 years, 4 months and 23 days. On Saturday, January 30, 1943, Daphna was united in marriage to Versel James Callahan. They enjoyed over 52 years together before her beloved Versel's passing on June 24, 1995. Four devoted children were born to this union. In addition to her parents and husband, Daphna was preceded in death by an infant daughter Brenda Kay Callahan; brothers Elbert Parrett and wife Myrna, Dwight Howdeshell and wife Margaret, Treff Hogan, Kenneth Howdeshell, and infant brother James Howdeshell; and brothers-in-law Eddie Lefler, Clarence Callahan, Clifford Callahan, Vernon Callahan, Arthur Baker, and Raymond Baker; sisters-in-law Thelma Rodgers and Freida Hardin. Among those who remain to mourn her passing are her loving children, Donald James Callahan and wife Krista of Warrenton, Missouri, Versel Ray Callahan and wife Carol of Montgomery City, Missouri, and Kathleen Masters and husband Roy of St. Peters, Missouri; brother Noel Howdeshell and wife Helen of Cuba, Missouri; sisters Anna Mae Biggs and husband Kenneth of Overland, Missouri, Mary Lefler of Overland, Missouri, Ruth Ogle and husband Bob of Steelville, Missouri, Mildred Conaway and husband Paul of Cuba, Missouri, and Juanita Crabtree and husband Don of Bridgeton, Missouri; sisters-in-law Vivian Hogan of Truxton, Missouri and Almeda Campbell of Cuba, Missouri; grandchildren Nicole Callahan, Shane Callahan, Shanna Callahan, Keith Smith, Christal Jones, Lisa Masters, Laura Masters, Melissa Callahan, and Michelle Callahan; great-grandchildren Chase Jones and Shalynn Jones; nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives, and many dear friends. Daphna Paulena Callahan lay in state 5-9 p.m. Wednesday, May 12, 2004 at the Britton Brothers Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri. Funeral services were held 1:30 p.m. Thursday, May 13, 2004 in the Britton Chapel with Rev. Richard Martin officiating. Musical selections were provided by vocalist Carol Coleman accompanied by pianist Shirley Brown. Committal prayers and interment were in the Freeman Cemetery, Cherryville, Missouri. Honoring Daphna by serving as pallbearers were grandson Shane Callahan and nephews David Biggs, Jason Conaway, Mike Conaway, Larry Howdeshell, and Terry Lefler. Arrangements were entrusted to the care of Britton Brothers Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri. Daphne Sarie Gahr Daphne Sarie Gahr nee Martin was born Tuesday, November 30, 1909 at Cherryville, Missouri, a daughter of the late William Madison Martin and Mary Emaline (Wisdom) Martin. Daphne entered eternal rest Sunday, May 9, 2004, at Salem Memorial Hospital in Salem, Missouri at the age of 94 years, 5 months and 9 days. On June 1, 1929, Daphne was united in marriage to Everett William Gahr. They enjoyed 62 years together until her beloved Everett's passing in 1991. Two loving children were born to this union. Daphne and Everett owned a small farm that her grandfather homesteaded. That farm had remained in her family for 119 years. She and Everett enjoyed raising Angus cattle as they did most of their married life together. Daphne also worked as a custodian for the Cherryville School and later as a cook at the Spare Rib Inn at Steelville, Missouri. Daphne professed her belief in Jesus Christ and was a charter member of the Viburnum Christian Church where she attended regularly and shared her talent with others by playing the piano for thirty years. She was also active in church as a Sunday School teacher. Daphne enjoyed crocheting, knitting, reading, and loved gardening. Daphne was a very loving and dear mother and grandmother, always ready to spend time with her grandchildren. She was described as an inspiration and such a positive influence on her family and friends. She had a way of always seeing the best in everyone and never missed an opportunity to visit those she would come in contact with. She was very much loved, will always be fondly remembered and deeply missed by all who knew her. In addition to her parents and her loving husband, Daphne was preceded in death by her brothers Trenton Martin and wife Bessie, Kenneth Martin and wife Delma; sisters Pearl Scott and husband Perry, Orene Eaton and husband John, Lida Hendrix and husband Arthur, and Geraldine Martin. Among those who remain to mourn her passing are her son Bill Gahr and wife JoAnn of Fenton, Missouri, daughter Betty Brown and husband Julius, Jr. of Salem, Missouri; brother Dewayne Martin and wife Lena of Cuba, Missouri; sister Juanita Morgan and husband Marlan of Sullivan, Missouri; nine grandchildren, twelve great-grandchildren, and one great-great-granddaughter; nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and many dear friends. Daphne Sarie Gahr lay in state 4-8 p.m. Tuesday, May 11, 2004, at the Britton Brothers Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri. Funeral services were held 2 p.m. Wednesday, May 12, 2004, in the Britton Chapel, her son Bill Gahr officiating, with George Civey and Harold Slade assisting. Granddaughter Rhonda Kuhlmann gave the eulogy. Musical selections were provided by Theresa Ware and Wanda Ransom. Committal prayers and interment were in the Steelville Cemetery, Steelville, Missouri. Those honoring Daphne by serving as pallbearers were Julius Brown, III, Bobby Frank, Kevin Gahr, Joshua Hagler, Chris Kuhlmann, and Jeff Kuhlmann. Serving as honorary pallbearers were Don Hedgecoth, Hershel Hedgecoth, Robert Brand, Charles Scott Leach, Jesse Strickland, Joseph Rose, Ed Kuhlmann, and Dan Cramer. Arrangements were entrusted to the care of Britton Brothers Funeral Home, Steelville, Missouri. Wiley W. Smith Jr. Wiley W. Smith Jr. age 77, former resident of Cherryville, Missouri passed away on Sunday, May 16, 2004 at Sunset Hills Health and Rehabilitation Center in St. Louis Missouri. Mr. Smith was born in Ellsinore, Missouri on December 11, 1926. He was preceded in death by his wife Zelda Nadine Smith (nee Rickman), one brother Jim Smith and three sisters, Helen Alcorn, Elizabeth (Tiny) Holmes, and Louise (Toots) Johnson. He is survived by his loving son, Kenneth Joe Smith of Phoenix Arizona and two grandchildren, Andrew Smith of Phoenix and Amy Smith of Kansas City, one sister, Mrs. Annabell Fulford of Ellsinore Missouri and her husband Bill, and one brother, Billy G. Smith and his wife Norma, residents of Davisville Missouri. "Uncle Wiley" will be greatly missed by numerous nieces and nephews, extended family, and many friends. Cremation will be in St. Louis. The Memorial Service and Internment will be in Senath, Missouri (date pending). Reprinted with permission from the Obituary page of the Steelville Star-Crawford Mirror Web site. ==================================================================== USGENWEB NOTICE: In keeping with our policy of providing free information on the Internet, data may be used by non-commercial entities, as long as this message remains on all copied material. 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