FINKS OBITUARIES, Henry County, Missouri ==================================================================== FINKS, Arthur Wayman Rev. 1865 - 1890 A. W. Finks, son of M. F. Finks, died about midnight Monday night, Feb. 17th, aged 24 years. His disease was consumption, having been sick for about two years, but only confined to his room a few days. He was buried on Wednesday, the 19th, at Calhoun. The funeral services were conducted by Rev. Harris, of Windsor, who preached an eloquent and consoling sermon from Job, 5th ch., 26th verse, after which a large concourse of friends, neighbors and relatives followed him to his last resting place. As a son, brother, friend and christian, he was loved, and will be greatly missed. FINKS, Bettie Fitzhugh LEWIS 1847 - 1920 Clinton MO, Dec 1920 - Mrs. M. D. Finks Entered Into Rest - At her home in Calhoun, at 8 p.m. November 26th, after years of suffering, with a complication of diseases. Two weeks before her death she took a severe cold, which settled on her lungs and caused her death. Bettie Fitzhugh Lewis was born September 28, 1847 at the home of her parents, Howell Lewis and wife, on the Lewis homestead just north of Lewis, now known as the Roe farm. January 26, 1871, she was united in marriage to M. D. Finks, who survives her. Three children were given to this union, all of whom are living, as follows: Leland Finks, Quinton, Okla., who was at his mother's bedside when she died; also Mesdames Brice F. and Clyde N. Richardson, of Calhoun. There are five grandchildren. She also leaves one brother, W. H. Lewis, of Lewis Station; and three sisters - Mrs. L. W. Good, Kansas City; Mrs. Jennie Gatewood, Lisco, Neb.; and Mrs. Emma Wiley, Calhoun. She was converted and united with the M. E. church, South, 40 years ago at Drake's Chapel, under the ministry of Rev. J. T. Hogan. Hers was a wonderful Christian character. She took a keen interest in the Sunday school and other activities of the church and her home was always open to the ministers of the gospel. Every preacher felt better for having been there, so pure and sweet was this good woman. Her life has been worth while, and one of real influence for good in the community. It was always a pleasure to visit at Aunt Bettie's. Altho so frail in health, she presided over her home with such a charm of manner and extended such gracious hospitality that every hour in her presence was worth while. On her devoted husband the blow of her death comes hardest. He will miss her most but their children will do everything in their power to comfort him and cheer him in his loneliness. Mrs. Finks is a descendant of the Washington family, her father, Howell Lewis, being a nephew of George Washington, the father of our country. November 1836 he and his wife came to Henry county and settled on this place just north of Lewis, where he made his home until his death. This old homestead is beautifully located on the rise just north of Lewis. For many years in the early history of Henry county, it was the main stopping place on the road and many a weary traveler enjoyed the open hearted old Virginia hospitality of the owner. It was a double log house with passage way between and later had additions. When it was built sawed lumber could not be had and puncheon floors were laid down and door casings hewn out, and for lack of nails were fastened with wooden pins. Shooting matches and hunts were the delight of all, and to be a good marksman was the delight of every man. Game of all kinds abounded. On a rack over the door of the old home hung for many years an old rifle, the property of Mrs. Finks' great-grandfather. It was first a flint and was later changed to percussion lock. This old rifle in the hands of Howell Lewis sent many a fatal load into fine fat deer in the neighborhood. One morning a fine fat buck ventured within its range from the family homestead and standing within his residence door, Mr. Lewis brought down his game. The funeral service of Mrs. finks was conducted at the M. E. church, in Calhoun, Sunday afternoon at 2 p.m. by her pastor, Rev. Edgar Hunt, after which her body was laid in the beautiful Calhoun cemetery. FINKS, Elizabeth GRAVES EDDINS 1803 - 1887 Grandma Finks is Dead - Funeral will be preached at one o'clock at Calhoun. She died at 2:30 Thursday afternoon, of pneumonia. Her life has been one of such sweet gentle purity that none knew her but to love and feel better for having been in her presence. She came with her husband, Mark Finks, at an early date from Madison county, Va. and located in old Franklin, across the river from Boonville, where they lived two years and lost one child, a daughter named Sallie; then they moved to the present old home place in Tebo township, where she lived for 40 years. Mrs. Finks' maiden name was Graves and she was married the first time to Mr. Eddins, in Virginia, by whom she had one son, Frank, who died of pneumonia during the late war; one daughter, Lou, who was married to Mr. Parks and lived in Papinville, Bates county. Her death occurred in 1859. She was married to Mark Finks before coming to Missouri. He died in 1876. Their home was ever the most cheerful and hospitable in the whole neighborhood and country. There were 11 children by the last union, 9 now living. Thornton, the oldest, died in California; Fannie, wife of T. D. Burch, lives near Lewis Station; Sallie died in Howard county; Mary, wife of J. P. Legg, lives in Tebo. Fisher married and is living near the home place; Will lives with his family on the home place; Jim has a family and is in the stock business at Windsor; Tandy died in 1860; Jennie, who has been the comfort and companion to her mother, ministering to her slightest wants, will feel this loss most heavily. Mit and Eliza were twins and Mit lives with his family near the home place; Eliza is the wife of Dode Adamson, near Montrose. Grandma Finks united with the Baptist Church at Calhoun a few years ago, the same time some of her children and grandchildren were made members and baptized. She lived to see her children surrounded by their children and grandchildren, making one of the largest families in the county. FINKS, Florence S. 1896 - 1994 Miss Florence S. Finks, 98, Harrisonville, died on December 12, 1994 at Camden Health Center where she made her home. Miss Finks was born to Edward R. Finks and Minnie Shepherd Finks on April 26, 1896 near Clinton. She lived in Calhoun prior to moving to Pleasant Hill in 1973. She had been at the health center since 1980. Miss Finks worked as a dispatcher for the M.K.& T. Railroad during World War I. During World War II, she was employed at Pratt and Lambert in Kansas City. In later years she worked at a clothing store in Clinton. She was a member of the United Methodist Church in Pleasant Hill. Miss Finks is survived by a sister Frances Schiller of Pleasant Hill, two nieces and two nephews. Her brother Noel Parks Finks passed away in 1960. Graveside services were held on December 14 under the direction of the Stanley & Son Funeral Home. Rev. Lowell T. Mize officiated. Burial was at Pleasant Hill Cemetery. FINKS, James Michael 1948 - 1995 James Michael Finks, 47, died Monday, October 23, 1995. Services were 11 a.m. Friday, October 27, at the McGilley State Line Chapel. Burial was in Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Raytown. Mr. Finks was born September 1, 1948, in Windsor. He moved to the Kansas City area in 1975. He worked as assistant controller for the Kansas City Star for 16 years. Survivors include his son, Jay Finks, Overland Park, Ks.; his daughter, Deanna Finks, Overland Park, Ks.; his parents, Joseph and Coleen Finks, Windsor, and two brothers, Ron Finks, Windsor, and Joe Finks, Marissa, IL. FINKS, Leland M. 1871 - 1935 Leland M. Finks, former resident of Calhoun, and brother-in-law of C. S. Morrow, cashier of the Calhoun Citizens State Bank, died at his home at 509 Dayton street, Muskogee, Okla., at the age of 64 years at 11:30 p.m. Saturday, September 7. He had been in very poor health the past three years and was bedfast nine weeks preceding his death, as a result of a fall, which injured his spine. Mr. Finks, the son of Betty and M. D. Finks, was born near Calhoun December 4, 1871. He resided in and near Calhoun for about 40 years and as organizer and part owner of the Tebo Telephone Exchange, later went to Cassville, Mo., where he owned another telephone exchange. From there Mr. Finks went to Clinton, Okla., where he prospered in the real estate business. He spent the remaining 14 years of his life in Muskogee, retiring because of ill health. Mr. Finks was a fine, kind public- spirited man and was held in high esteem by all who knew him either socially or through business acquaintances. He had been a devout member of the Methodist church many years. He is survived by his wife who was Miss Cecil Morrow of Calhoun, and one son, Harold Mark Finks, of the home, and one sister, Mrs. Eliza Richardson of Hughesville. Another sister, Mrs. May Richardson, died eight years ago. Two nieces, Mrs. Clifford Kunkler and Mrs. Robert Cornick, reside in Clinton. His funeral services were conducted from the Muskogee Methodist church, South, Monday, September 9, at 2:30 p.m. Burial in Muskogee cemetery. FINKS, Mark Fisher 1834 - 1922 Fisher Finks Is Dead - Fisher Finks was found dead in his bed by his wife about six ošclock Monday morning. He had been in poor health for several years and almost helpless. He had been much worse the last few weeks, but up in his chair part of the time. Sunday, however, he had been in bed all day, but was no worse, when his wife retired. Mark Fisher Finks was born September 10, 1834, in Madison county, Virginia, and came with his parents to Henry county in 1838. He was educated here and grew to manhood. He married Nancy Elizabeth Avery, October 20th, 1864. Six children were given to this union, three of whom survive to comfort the dear mother - Avery Finks, at Mena, Arkansas; Mrs. Jas. Slack, south of Calhoun and Harry Finks, of Clinton. He leaves two brothers, Will and M. D. Finks, both of Calhoun; and two sisters, Mrs. Mary Legg, of Calhoun; and Mrs. W. W. Adamson, of Montrose. Mr. Finks was one of the leading farmers and stockmen of Henry county, owning a fine 280 acre farm west of Calhoun, with his home on a sightly location, which commends a view of the entire countryside. In his younger days he delighted in raising the best products and always contributed a large portion of exhibits to the county fairs. His livestock also took many prizes. He was converted many years ago and was a devout member of the Calhoun Baptist Church, raising his children to be faithful followers of the Master. He served Henry county as County Judge for two terms a number of years ago. He was a stock holder in the Farmers Elevator, also in both of the Calhoun banks. He was good, kind and true, never a word of reproach was heard of him or by him. His life is one worthy of emulation and all his children and grandchildren are proud to bear his name. He had been nearly helpless for several years and during that time he had had much sorrow, seeing his children, who had been in apparent good health be suddenly stricken as his son, Walter, died but a few months ago. His youngest son, Harry, is now in a Kansas City hospital, having just a few days previous undergone an operation for appendicitis. May the comforter come to this dear wife and his children in this time of sorrow. The funeral services were conducted at the Calhoun Baptist church Wednesday morning at 10 a.m. Burial in the Calhoun cemetery. FINKS, Milton D. 1845 - 1924 Clinton MO, Apr 1924 - M. D. Finks Died - At his home in Calhoun Monday afternoon, after being in poor health for several years, and being critically ill for several weeks. Milton D. Finks was born near Calhoun, November 23, 1845. Was married to Bettie Lewis, January 26, 1871. to this union three children were born - L. M. Finks, of Quinton, Okla.; Mrs. B. F. Richardson and Mrs. C. N. Richardson, both of Calhoun, all of whom were at his bedside and administered to him during his last illness. He was converted at the age of 36 and joined the church at Drake's Chapel, later moving his membership to Calhoun. He leaves to mourn his death, his three children, six grandchildren, one brother, W. C. Finks, sister, Mrs. Mary Legg, both of Calhoun, and his twin sister, Mrs. W. W. Adamson, of Montrose. His companion and one grandson having passed on a few years ago. Since the death of his companion three years ago, he had made his home with his youngest daughter, Mrs. C. N. Richardson. He had served as president of the Peoples Bank since its organization 14 years ago. Had been a member of the official board of the church for years and served as steward for more than 20 years. He lived a quiet, unassuming Christian life, always thinking of the comfort and welfare of others. His was a life to be emulated and may his children and all who have been so closely associated with him try to put into practice in their own daily lives those virtues of unselfishness, devotion to duty and kindly service that was so beautifully exemplified in his daily life. His beloved wife was nearly an invalid for many years. He gave her the most devoted care, always being ready to administer to her comfort. Their married life was filled with loving devotion. Rev. Brooks, pastor of the Calhoun Methodist church, conducted the funeral services Tuesday afternoon at the church, assisted by Rev. Wilcox, the Baptist minister. The body of Mr. Finks was laid beside his wife in the Calhoun cemetery. FINKS, Nancy Elizabeth AVERY 1845 - 1926 Death of Mrs. Mark Fisher Finks - Sunday night, October 31st, 1926, her spirit left its earthly body to join her loved ones gone before. She died at the home of her daughter, Mrs. Jim Slack, south of Calhoun, where she had been for several weeks, going there when she first became ill. She loved to live at her old home, west of Calhoun, where she went as a bride in 1864. It was a two-story, frame house, built on the topmost point commanding a view of rare beauty of the surrounding countryside. She loved every spot on the home place; it was filled with memories. There she had lived and loved, instilled in her children ideals that will influence the coming generations. Strong of character, an apt student of human nature, a reader of things worth while, she never grew old. As the years came on, although her body grew weaker, the keenness of her mind and her vision into the real things charmed her younger acquaintances. Her children were reluctant to leave her on the home place alone after her beloved husband died four years ago, and would take her to their homes, where children and grandchildren did all possible to keep her. How she loved and reveled in these grandchildren. Only a few months ago she showed the writer sketches and pictures made by the little son of her daughter, Edna. Her children and grandchildren are the reflection of her life. In them, we see ambition for the worth while things, see them taking the places where their lives count for most. While she planned for big things for her children, and inspired them to always go on, she made it possible by surrounding them with the homelike things that are so essential. The cookie jar was always filled; her home always open to their friends and hers and kins people. Her hospitality was unequaled, and in the cooking art she excelled. her hearty welcome, to have her clasp you in her arms, and make you know she was glad you came, is one of our happiest memories. Even tho' our eyes are tear dimmed, we know she is now divinely happy. For why not? She is with Jesus, and those she loved. Last summer she went back to the old home for a few months under protest of her children, who could not bear to think of her loneliness there. One evening at twilight, last summer, we visited her. Although no other human was there, she was not lonely. She made us see how completely her life had been filled - hallowed and blessed with memories that were around her. No other spot was quite so dear, and she would rather look into the great distances there, plan and dream of those nearest to heart, than anything else. In early life she was converted and united with the Calhoun Baptist church, where her membership remained until her death. Nancy Elizabeth Avery was born May 10, 1845. Her father, William Avery, was judge of Henry county court, from 1852 to 1864, and in 1870 was made judge of the court of common pleas, and 1874 was made probate judge until his death in 1875. Her only living brother is Henry Avery, husband of Susie Barnett, who live in Long Beach, Cal. She leaves two sisters - Mrs. Nicholas Marr, Joplin, and Mrs. Peter Marr, Springfield. October 20, 1864, she was united in marriage to Mark Fisher Finks. to this union were born six sons and one daughter. Arthur Wayman, an ordained minister of the Baptist church, died February 17, 1890, at Calhoun, Mo. Walter Lee departed this life August 29, 1922, at Calhoun. Howard Preston, of Ft. Smith, Ark., dying July 5, 1911. Norman Mark, of Calhoun, also passed away August 14, 1909. She is survived by one daughter, Edna Emma, wife of James E. Slack, of Calhoun; two sons - William Avery, of Mena, Ark., and Harry F., of Clinton. She is also survived by fourteen grandchildren. The funeral was held Tuesday afternoon at the Baptist church in Calhoun, and conducted by one of her former pastors, Rev. John R. Blythe, now pastor of the First Baptist church of Clinton. The active pallbearers were: D. A. Wilson, S. S. Stone, C. J. Simonds, Charles Jones, Hall Goodrich, George Chapman. The honorary pallbearers were: Henry Slack, H. P. Faris, R. A. Jones, Mack Fewell, Pleas Avery, and J. H. Avery. A very touching graveside service was conducted by H. P. Faris. Mr. Faris has know the Avery and Finks families for many years. Those who attended the funeral from a distance were: Avery Finks, Mena, Ark.; Miss Frances Finks, Cotty College, Nevada; Nelson Finks, Central College, Fayette; Mrs. Charles Small, Pittsburg, Kans.; Miss Helen Slack, St. Joseph. FINKS, Norman M. 1877 - 1909 Norman Finks died on his farm a few miles west of Calhoun, Saturday, August 14, 1909, after a short illness. The funeral services were held at Drakešs Chapel, Sunday afternoon, conducted by Rev. Riley and the writer. Interment at the Chapel cemetery. The pall bearers were Clyde and Brice Richardson, Walter Brownfield, Henry Legg, Arthur Parks and Lee Jones. The floral tribute was beautiful and profuse. Norman Finks was born in this county December 3, 1877. He was married April 12, 1903, to Florence Miles. He was a member of the Calhoun Baptist church. He was a splendid specimen of manhood, an active, industrious and successful citizen; a loyal and obedient son, kind and affectionate husband. In his intercourse with his fellow men he clearly revealed the goodness, gentleness and kindness of a beautiful and lovely character. His good wife, little son, father and mother, Mr. and Mrs. Fisher Finks, four brothers - W. L. and Harry Finks, of Clinton, Avery Finks of Mena, and Howard Finks of Fort Smith, Arkansas, and one sister, Mrs. James Slack near Calhoun survive him. The sorrowing family have the sympathy of the entire community in this sad hour of their loss. FINKS, Sarah E. "Sallie" GEORGE 1844 - 1923 Miss Sallie E. George, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Calvin George, was born near Boonville, Cooper county, Mo. May 24th, 1844; was married to W. C. Finks, April 26th 1864. To this union was born six children; two deceased, George Everett, passing away at the age of 19 years and Alice Evaline passing away three years ago, leaving three sons and one daughter, R. E. and Scott and Mrs. Rhoda Finks, of Calhoun, and C. P. Finks, of Schell City, and a companion 86 years of age: one sister and one half brother in the state of California. She also leaves fourteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. She united with the M. E. Church, South, some 40 years ago, living a consistent Christian life to her death, departing this life February 27, 1923 at 9 a.m. She was a mother that never thought of herself, always thinking, planning and praying and doing for those she loved, ministering to those around her and leaving a ray of sunshine wherever she passed. The devotion and patience she bestowed upon her companion was marvelous and the comfort she seemed to receive in doing for her daughter, Miss Rhoda, who has been an inseparable companion to her. The funeral services were conducted February 28th by Rev. G. B. Snapp, assisted by Rev. J. W. Umphreys, pastor of the Christian church. Interment in the beautiful Calhoun cemetery. FINKS, Walter 1868 - 1922 Walter Finks In Heaven - Wednesday morning at 1 o'clock, the spirit of Walter L. Finks left his body and went to the Home Eternal. He was ill only since last Friday night. He had been to the State Fair and that night was sick at his stomach. It was thought he had an acute attack of indigestion. All possible was done to relieve him, but he grew worse and Sunday it was seen that an acute attack of appendicitis had developed. He was hurried to Clinton to the N. I. Stebbins hospital and he underwent an operation Monday. The operation however, came too late, as the appendix had bursted and peritonitis had already set in. He was conscious most of the time after the operation. He was told that he was soon to take the "Long Journey." He expressed only gladness, not a shadow of doubt of where he should pass eternity. He told his folks that only the leaving of them was the hard part, but Heaven seemed only a step away. He called each of his loved ones to him and left them the last message. For the ones who had not been able to come, he left a message for them also. He forgot none. He said not to worry he would be on the other side to welcome their coming. He told his son, Raymond, to live nearer to God and take up the Master's work, for that is what counts most. To his wife he said for her to do more and more for her church and her Master. To his parents he sent the word he would be ready for their coming, for them not to grieve. He was born January 2, 1868, on the Finks home farm 3 miles west of Calhoun, where he grew to young manhood, attending school at Highland, then at Calhoun, completing his education in Clinton. He soon started teaching and taught several rural schools. He was principal of the Windsor schools, then later came to Clinton, as principal of the Jefferson Park school. He then returned to Calhoun and went into Mercantile business and the firm became known as the Finks & Morrow store. He was elected clerk of the county court and was one of the best officials this county ever had from 1907 to 1911. He then returned to Calhoun, continuing in the Mercantile business until about ten years ago, he became cashier of the Bank of Calhoun. He was an honest, conservative banker and his opinion was taken absolutely by the community as they all know that he would take care of each depositor's business as if it was their very own. He was united in marriage to Zella Lane Taylor, April 13, 1873 (should be Feb 8 1893), who survives him. One child, Raymond, was given to this union, who also survives. There was never a happier home than theirs. He and his wife enjoyed the same things and worked for the same purposes and ideals. He always took an active part in the work of his church leading in all of its good work. His wife was ever at his side, smilingly ministering to those about them and leading the women of the denomination to do the most needful things. Such a union as theirs is rare indeed, and it seems doubly sad when it is broken. But we must bow in submission to Him who know best and rules the universe. Only by letting the Comforter come to them, and keeping busy hands, can his dear wife and son stand this great sorrow that has come to them. The kind husband and father realizing this, was the reason that his last admonition to them was to keep busy for the Master. He had been so happy the last few weeks getting everything ready for his son, Raymond and bride, who came back last week from their wedding trip. He also leaves his parents, Mr. and Mrs. M. F. Finks, west of Calhoun; one sister, Mrs. James E. Slack, south of Calhoun; two brothers, Avery Finks, at Mena, Arkansas, and Harry Finks, of Clinton. He was converted when a young man and united the the Baptist church. Being a natural leader, he was elected superintendent of the Calhoun Baptist Sunday School, when but a young man. It was before the days of motor cars, and for four or five years he walked in each Sunday morning in order to get there in time for his Sunday School work. He had served his church in every capacity possible, being its clerk, deacon, Sunday School superintendent, and at the time of his death was the beloved teacher of the Men's Bible Class. He not only gave himself but freely of his means. He was always at church, on time, ready to serve where needed and give a hearty welcome to all. He had also served in the Tebo Association as moderator, clerk and assistant moderator. He had planned to attend next week, as he was assistant moderator. He had also held positions of honor in the Henry County Sunday School Association, and other organizations of which he was a member. He was dependable in the life of his community and always ready to boost for his home town. He always took an active part in the Colt Show. He will be missed by every man, woman and child in Calhoun. Clinton and all Henry county is bowed in grief. Mere words cannot express what such a life has meant to the community. After all, life is not measured by a long span of years, but how we use them. The Christ only lived to be a little past thirty. Walter Finks used his time well. We do not believe he had an idle minute or one that did not make some one just a little happier or better. He had a studious mind and a love for humanity, which has made his life count for much. His body was taken home Wednesday afternoon, but at the time we went to press Wednesday, definite funeral arrangements had not been made. They expected to hold the funeral at the Calhoun Baptist church Thursday afternoon, after which his body would be laid in the Calhoun cemetery. His brother, Avery Finks, from Mena, Arkansas, arrived on the noon train Wednesday. FINKS, William C. 1837 - 1929 William C. Finks was born April 6, 1837, in Howard county, Mo. He was the third child of Mark and Eliza Elizabeth Finks, they moving to Henry county in 1839. He was united in marriage to Sarah E. George, April 26, 1864, in Cooper county. Mrs. Finks preceded him in death seven years ago. To this union six children were born - Alice Eva, Richard Edward, Charles Pearl, Rhoda, Everett and Scott. Alice Eva and Everett passed on several years ago. He united with the Methodist church several years ago at the old brick church and was a faithful worker and attendant as long as health permitted. He was a constant sufferer for the last twenty years, and his mind was well as body had never been the same since. He passed to his eternal reward November 4, 1929, aged 92 years, 6 months and 28 days. Besides his children he leaves 16 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild; one sister, Mrs. W. W. Adamson, of Montrose, Mo., who is the last of that generation and unable to attend the funeral. Since the death of Mrs. Finks, his daughter, Rhoda, who has been more than faithful in caring for him, also his son, Ed, stayed almost every night with them, ready to render any assistance needed. Another son, Scott, lives at Calhoun, and one son, Pearl, at Calhoun. Funeral services were conducted at the Methodist church by his pastor, D. H. Holland. the 90th Psalm was the lesson, 10th verse, the text. ==================================================================== USGENWEB NOTICE: In keeping with our policy of providing free information on the Internet, data may be used by non-commercial entities, as long as this message remains on all copied material. These electronic pages may NOT be reproduced in any format for profit or for presentation by other persons or organizations. Persons or organizations desiring to use this material for purposes other than stated above must obtain the written consent of the file contributor. 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