RICHMOND COUNTY, NC - MARRIAGES - Proposal, John L. McRae to Flora Ann McKay
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The letter is a transcribed copy from a handwritten letter to Flora Ann
McKay from John L. McRae asking her to marry him.

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Richmond County ( N.C. )

January 16, 1835


                      Dear Madam

     Those only who are interested can tell the unhappy moments
of                      hesitative uncertainty which attend the
formation of a resolution to declare sentiments of effection. I can
testify this fact could not previous to my experience form the remotest
idea of its security.
     Consequently I trust you will pardon the step which I  have  taken
in writing this letter to you as it is to acquaint you that ever since
my first acquantance with you I have felt the most tender regard for
you. In as much as my limits at present will not admit me to give you a
true picture of my state I humbly hope that when you read this and
consider the earnest intention of my heart that you will yield your
tender affection to me which would suffice to make me truly happy.
If I am as should be so fortunate as to gain your affection to a degree
equal to my regard for you I should expect your hand in the mutual ties
of matrimony which is honorable to all and should not be neglected by
none for it is written that we should leave parents and cleve to each
other and be as one flesh. After a serious deliberation and contents of
this I hope loving Miss that you will give me a desired answer or let me
know by letter the first opportunity that I am to depend on and Madam
your real answer will remain in the most impatience waiting for your
answer.


John McRae


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	Flora Ann was 17 years of age when this letter was written, however 
she apparently  took her time before accepting his proposal, but she did 
eventually gain his effection as they were married 9 years later and she bore 
him 7 children. John died 1887, Flora Ann died 1894.