Dr. B. C. Parker Family from History of Acworth, New Hampshire From: tumbleweed@lisco.net - Sharon Franklin Surname: PARKER Source: History of Acworth with the Proceedings of the Centennial Anniversary, Genealogical Records and Register of Farms by Rev. J. L. Merrill, Town of Acworth, 1869, Page 254 DOCTOR B. C. PARKER, with his wife, arrived in Acworth in the spring of 1808, at the age of twenty-four years. He was the eldest of five sons of David Parker of Westford, Massachusetts, three of who were physicians, one a banker, and one a farmer. For that period, he was well educated. There were then no medical schools, and the profession was learned in the office of some approved physician. He had spared no pains in his profession, availing himself of all the means within his reach, and entered his new field of labor confident of success. He at first took up his residence at the north end of the village, remaining there about seven years. In 1815 he was able to lay the foundation of his home in the south part of the village, where he remained through life, and with which we all love to associate him. Dr. Parker, as a physician, was widely known and universally respected. He acquired celebrity in the region round about, insomuch that his counsel was sought in various directions. He often rode thirty and forty miles in a day. He took great delight in his profession; his patients being to him as dear friends, and by day and by night, through snow and blow, he willingly lent a listening ear to a call of distress. He never ceased to study, and possessed a valuable medical library for that period and the midnight watch and early dawn found him pouring over these volumes. This library was chosen with so much discrimination that it became a valuable addition to that of his son at a later and more learned period. He was very happy in his modus operandi as a doctor. He was prompt, and would enter the sick room with such a genial, hopeful smile, and so softly, carefully and patiently, listen to all the complaints of a sick room as to steal the hearts of those looking to him for relief. Truly, he was a good doctor. As a gentleman he possessed more than ordinary culture, and was remarkable for affability kindness and politeness of demeanor. He was a man of strict integrity, ever remembering the golden rule, and of whom it might be said, "his word is as good as his bond. "He was social and generous in his feelings, and his house was the center of a wide hospitality. All were welcome, and nowhere did friends find a warmer welcome that beneath his roof. None who ever enjoyed his hospitality will forget the open, generous and courteous manner in which it was dispensed, and will grieve to remember that it is past forever. His profession pecuniarily brought him independence. He lived in great comfort, reared and educated a promising family, and on the whole had little to regret. In his whole career, his wife, Mrs. Mary Parker nobly seconded him, who to know was to love. She was strong-minded, had good common sense, and an unusual amount of executive ability. At the age of fifty-eight years Dr. Parker lost his wife, and soon after his own health gave way. During the last ten years of his life, he was a great sufferer. The hardships of early life now told upon him. As he neared the close of life he gave evidence of that faith in Christ which supports in the darkest hour, and peacefully went to his rest. He died in 1856, aged seventy-two years. His children, were, I. Milton, early designed for his father's profession, he added to it surgery. He enjoyed all the facilities his country affords for a complete education. He spent double the usual amount of time in preparing for his profession, and year after year found him at lectures in New York, Boston and Philadelphia. His object accomplished, and his health requiring a more genial climate, went south and settled in Charlestown, Virginia. Here he was warmly received and entered at once upon a large and lucrative practice in both branches of his profession. As a surgeon, he obtained a wide celebrity and cases were brought to him from all the country round about. Day after day, and year after year, amid a throng of suffering humanity, he is perfectly at home. The first glimpse of his cheerful sanguine countenance inspires a new confidence, and as he proceeds, his quick perception and ready adaptation to circumstances, is, to a looker-on, surprising. In 1859, his health made a change desirable, and he removed to Chicago, his present residence, not intending to engage in practice to any extent. His reputation however followed him, the force of habit drew him into a large practice, and he ranks high among the medical men of that city. He married Harriet, eldest daughter of Colonel Train of Washington, N.H. II. Laura, the eldest daughter of Dr. Parker, inherited the talents of the family. She however was quiet and unobtrusive in her ways, rejoicing rather in the praise and successes of her brothers and sisters than in seeking a high place for herself. She was domestic in her habits, and was assiduous in her attention to the wants of her parents and friends, studying to make all around her comfortable and happy. She was also public-spirited, taking great interest in the Sabbath-school and in all the missionary and benevolent enterprises of her native village. She was the last of the family to leave Acworth, having seen her father, mother and sister lay in the silent grave, and her brothers settled in their professions. She died in South Carolina where she had gone for health. III. Mary - died young. IV. Julia possessed uncommon traits; she had a cheerful and happy temper, ready wit, and good conversational powers. She thirsted for knowledge, and read everything that came in her way. From the Bridgewater treatises to works of light literature. She readily acquired the languages, and besides Latin, was acquainted with French, Spanish and Italian. Before her death she had developed quite a talent for writing, had tried her hand upon essays, criticisms, tales and sketches with much success, writing in both prose and verse. In 1851 she married J. Dyson, Esq. of Clarendon, S.C. and died on 8 April 1852, soon after she reached her new home. Her memoir was written by Miss E. Latimer, and published together with miscellanies from her own pen. V. Horace, studied dentistry in Charlestown, S.C., and entered upon the practice of his profession in Edgefield in the same State, in which he has been successful, - married Sarah Dorm; his eight children are the only grand children of Doctor Parker. Under his roof, recur the old household name. ************************************************************************ * * * NOTICE: Printing the files within by non-commercial individuals and libraries is encouraged, as long as all notices and submitter information is included. Any other use, including copying files to other sites requires permission from the submitters PRIOR to uploading to any other sites. We encourage links to the state and county table of contents. * * * * The USGenWeb Project makes no claims or estimates of the validity of the information submitted and remind you that each new piece of information must be researched and proved or disproved by weight of evidence. 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