Obit of Asbury, James M. - Jackson County, Oklahoma Thanks to Bakersfield Californian for permission to upload their obits to the USGenWeb Archives. Copyright, http://www.bakersfield.com/ 30 Dec 2007 Return to Jackson County Archives: http://www.usgwarchives.net/ok/jackson/jackson.html ===================================================================== USGENWEB NOTICE Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm ===================================================================== ::Greenlawn Memorial Park--Bakersfield CA Asbury, James M. James M. Asbury "Mickey" Oct. 15, 1945 - Sept. 19, 2007 Mission Family Mortuary Mickey was born October 15, 1945 to James and Joyce Asbury in Altus, Oklahoma. In 1953, with Mickey in tow at the young age of eight, the Asbury family moved to a new house just built on Bedford Drive in Oildale. Mickey attended Standard School, then Highland Elementary when it opened its doors in 1954 and returned to Standard to complete Junior High School in 1959. At Standard School he was a member of Mr. Henry's Junior Optimist Club where only the most popular boys were invited to become members. His father, Jim, who passed away in 2001, worked for Standard Oil so Mickey was able to spend many long hot summer days at Standard Plunge on China Grade Loop. Mickey attended North High School, graduating in 1963. At North, Mickey put his Standard Plunge experience to work and won several South Yosemite League Diving Championships. In his senior year he was voted best looking boy of the senior class, the highest honor all boys wanted because the girls are the ones that vote. Mickey attended Bakersfield College and met the love of his life, Bea Livermore, whom he married on July 2, 1965. Mick went to work for Pacific Bell where he enjoyed 37 years of service, retiring in 2006. Mickey is survived by the love of his live Bea; his boys, Darin of Thousand Oaks, and Tyson of Bakersfield and their wives, Alison and Carrie; 3 grandsons, Zachary, Matthew and Tyson James (T.J.); his mother, Joyce; sister, Paula; brother, Dean and his wife, Jackie; along with numerous nieces and nephews. Mickey had many passions in life including hunting, bass fishing where he competed in many tournaments, equestrian activities including reining, team pinning and trail riding with Bea. Mickey's greatest passion however was spending quality time with his extended family and friends. The illness that caused Mickey's death was a neuro-muscular disease that in two years robbed him of his robust body and the ability to do all of the fun physical things that he enjoyed most. Yet despite those setbacks, Mickey remained positive and determined and very committed to overcome his disease. He always greeted family, friends and strangers with a warm smile and tenderness. He left us all with a warm heart and a smile. He touched many lives and will be greatly missed, but God will take good care of him. Visitation will be held Saturday and Sunday, September 22nd and 23rd, from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., at Mission Family Mortuary, 531 California Ave. A celebration of life will be held graveside at Greenlawn Cemetery, 3700 River Blvd., Monday, September 24th, at 11:00 a.m. Published in the Bakersfield Californian on 9/22/2007. --------------------------------------------------------------------- Return to Jackson County Archives: http://www.usgwarchives.net/ok/jackson/jackson.html