Southampton County Virginia USGenWeb Archives Obituaries.....Gay, Josiah P., 1921 ************************************************ Copyright. All rights reserved. http://www.usgwarchives.net/copyright.htm http://www.usgwarchives.net/va/vafiles.htm ************************************************ JOSIAH POWELL GAY Franklin lost one of its finest and foremost citizens, a man whose name had been closely identified with the growth and development of the town since the days following the Civil War, in the death of Mr. Josiah Powell Gay, which occurred at his home in North High street Thursday evening, June 16, at 8 o’clock. Mr. Gay would have reached his seventy-fourth birthday August 15, 1921, and for several weeks had been critically ill with a trained nurse in attendance. Although his death was not unexpected, the passing of such a name as J.P. Gay cannot fail to bring universal sorrow to any town or community because of the uprightness of his walk in life, the high integrity of all his dealings with his fellows, and the splendid Christian Character which he constantly and consistently exemplified in all of the relations and obligations of human endeavor. Mr. Gay was born in Southampton county, in the Franklin community, the son of the late William E. and Laura M. Gay. When he was a mere youth, the War Between the States had broken out in all of the fury which ravaged and devastated his beloved Southland, and he entered the service of the Confederacy soon after the battle of Gettysburg in 1863, being at the time only sixteen years of age. But his service to the Stars and Bars was of the highest order of gallantry, bravery and patriotism and he ever cherished and maintained his allegiance to that glorious cause. He was one of three brothers in the Confederate Army, losing one brother, Harrison Gay, in action. As a loyal and useful member of Urquhart-Gillette Camp U.C.V., he served as treasurer and afterwards as adjutant, never missing a meeting of the survivors of the Lost Cause when able to be with his old comrades. Coming to Franklin at the close of the war, Mr. Gay clerked for some time for the late Frank Holland and going in business with Mr. C.C. Vaughan, Sr., as Vaughan and Gay. In 1881, he established the firm of J.P. Gay, which he conducted successfully until the year 1905. He was interested in the cotton business here for a number of years, until he retired from active participation in all business enterprises a short while ago. He was married October 8, 1878, to Miss Emma Willie Lee, daughter of the late Captain P.H. Lee of Nansemond, his beloved wife preceding him to the Spirit World in 1906. A year later, a daughter Miss Willie Gay, died and he is survived by a son, J.P. Gay, Jr.*, and a daughter, Mrs. J.F. Bryant, Jr. and one grandson, Joe Gay Bryant. Members of his family who were honored residents of this town and prominently connected with some of its oldest family were the late Littleton A. Gay, Mrs. C.C. Vaughan, Sr., and Mrs. Bettie Crumpler. Mr. Gay was a member of the Franklin Baptist Church and the oldest on the church register in point of years of membership. As Deacon and Treasurer of his church, as one of the most faithful, liberal and consistent Christian within the acquaintance of the writer, it would be difficult to estimate his value to his church, and by reason of the life he lived and practiced, his value to his town and community. The name of Joe Gay was a synonym as far as he was known for the highest type of Christian citizenship than which there can be on more noble epitaph written of any man. He was a member of Franklin Lodge No. 151 A.R. and A.M. and a past Worshipful Master of that order, member of Franklin Lodge No. 51 Knights of Pythias and past Chancellor Commander of the lodge, being a charter member of both orders. Though never seeking public office, he had filled with credit the positions of Mayor and Councilman in the town government, and was ever ready to lend his name and to give of his means to all worthy local movements. Funeral services will be conducted from the Franklin Baptist Church Saturday afternoon at 3 o’clock by Rev. M.A. MacLean pastor of the church. Interment will follow in the family plot in Poplar Spring Cemetery and the Masons will participate in the services at the cemetery. ****************************************************************************** FUNERAL OF J.P. GAY The funeral services for our lamented townsman, Mr. J.P. Gay, whose death was given last week’s issue, were held from the Franklin Baptist Church Saturday afternoon at 3 o’clock. His pastor, Rev. M.A. MacLean was assisted by Dr. C.H. Rowland of the Christian Church and Rev. J.A. Chapman of the M.E. church, Mr. MacLean paying a most fitting and eloquent tribute to the life and work of Mr. Gay. Hymns sung by the choir were all favorites of the deceased and were those old songs which have helped and inspired countless thousands of faithful Christians - "My Soul Be on Thy Guard", "Jesus Lover of My Soul" and "How Firm a Foundation" were sung at the service in the church and "My Faith Looks up to Thee" was used as a quartette at the grave side. The active pallbearers were Gen. C.C. Vaughan, J.E. Bynum Gay, Harry T. Jones of Norfolk, Jno. P. Lee and L. Pretlow Holland of Suffolk, B.L. Holt, W.O. Bristow and Dr. J.C. Rawls. The honorary pallbearers were A.L. Gardner, J.L. Camp, J.A. Johnson, R.C. Campbell, E.S. Eley, B.M. Cutchin, B.J. Ray, I.E. Howell and R.E.L. Watkins deacons of the Franklin Baptist Church; M.H. Moore, W.T. Pace, Col. E.E. Holland of Suffolk, J.V. Boone, W.H. Pierce of Danville and Paul Scarborough, and the following Confederate Veterans, who followed the body of their beloved comrade to the last roll-call, dressed in the gray uniform he loved so well and with his casket draped with the beautiful silken banner, the "Stars and Bars" used as the camp flag by Urquhart-Gillette Camp U.C.V.; C.C. Vaughan, Sr., J.T. Bradshaw, M.L. Raiford, J.H. Vaughan and E.F. Reese. Josiah Powell "Joe" GAY, Franklin businessman, former Mayor & Councilman, Confederate veteran, b. 15 Aug 1847, Southampton Co., d. 16 Jun 1921, at home, Franklin, interred in Poplar Spring Cemetery (Section 1, Plot 10**), Franklin, 18 Jun 1921, "The Tidewater News" (Franklin, VA), June 17, 1921, p. 1; "The Tidewater News" (Franklin, VA), June 24, 1921, p. 5 **Southampton County Historical Society {SCHS} Cemetery Project, Poplar Spring list: http://files.usgwarchives.net/va/southampton/cemeteries/poplar1.txt *While his son is styled above "J.P. Gay, Jr.," he was actually named Joseph Patrick. His obit ("Tidewater News," Apr. 12, 1946, p. 5) is posted at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/va/southampton/obits/g000j4ob.txt Contributed for use in the USGenWeb Archives by Mrs. Bruce Saunders (bs4403@verizon.net), and re-formatted by File Manager Matt Harris. file at: http://files.usgwarchives.net/va/southampton/obits/g000j1ob.txt